Staying Grounded in a Busy World
Life moves fast. Between raising three kids, running a business, and staying involved in my community, there’s always something demanding my attention. Over the years, I’ve learned that if I don’t have a strong foundation, it’s easy to get pulled in too many directions—and lose sight of what actually matters. For me, everything in life and business boils down to three core values: faith, family, and focus.
They’re my non-negotiables. These aren’t just ideas I throw around; they’re the daily anchors that guide my decisions, shape my mindset, and keep me grounded—especially when life gets chaotic.
Faith: The Foundation for Everything
My faith isn’t just a piece of who I am—it’s the base layer of my life. I grew up in a big military family, and while discipline and hard work were important, so was having a sense of purpose and something bigger than ourselves. That belief in something greater carried into my adult life, and now into my role as a husband, father, and entrepreneur.
Faith gives me peace when things are uncertain. It reminds me to lead with humility, to serve others, and to trust the process even when I don’t see the full picture. In business, faith helps me stay steady when deals fall through or plans shift. It keeps me from getting too high or too low.
And honestly, it’s what keeps me accountable. When I approach my work and relationships with integrity, gratitude, and compassion, I’m living out my faith in practical ways. Whether I’m closing a deal or playing basketball with my kids, I want to reflect the values I believe in.
Family: My Why Behind Everything
If faith is the foundation, family is the reason I build. My wife and three kids are my greatest blessings and biggest motivators. They’ve seen me at my best and my worst. They’ve been patient through my long work days and celebrated with me through every small win.
Before having kids, I could grind non-stop. I’d travel across the country, knocking doors and chasing commissions. But becoming a dad changed everything. It made me look at time differently. It made me realize that success without being present for my family isn’t success at all.
These days, I work hard—but I do it with the goal of creating freedom. Freedom to coach my kids’ sports teams. Freedom to show up for school events. Freedom to take my wife out for a quiet dinner and just talk. My business decisions are run through a simple filter: Will this pull me closer to or further from my family?
That one question keeps me honest.
Focus: The Key to Getting Anything Done
Let’s be real—there are distractions everywhere. Social media, email, new business ideas, endless to-do lists. In the age of multitasking, I’ve learned that the only way to actually move forward is to simplify and focus.
Focus for me means cutting the noise and locking in on what matters most today. Not tomorrow. Not next year. Today.
When I’m working, I’m all in. Whether I’m on the phone with a client, reviewing a deal, or learning a new real estate strategy, I give it my full attention. And when I’m with my family? Same rule applies. No scrolling. No half-listening. Just being there.
It’s not always easy, but it’s a game-changer. Focus allows me to work more efficiently, be more present, and ultimately create better results across the board.
How These Three Work Together
It’s not about choosing one over the others. Faith, family, and focus all work together in a rhythm. Faith centers me. Family fuels me. Focus drives me. When all three are in balance, I operate at my best.
That’s not to say I get it perfect—far from it. I still have days where I feel overwhelmed, miss the mark, or lose patience. But coming back to these three helps me reset. If I’m feeling out of sync, I check in with those values. Usually, I find I’ve neglected one, and just bringing it back into alignment helps everything else fall into place.
Final Thoughts: Know What You Stand For
If there’s one thing I’ve learned in business and life, it’s that you have to know what you stand for. There’s always going to be a new opportunity, a new challenge, or someone with a different opinion. If you don’t have your own compass, you’ll end up chasing things that don’t align with who you are.
For me, that compass is built on faith, family, and focus. They’ve helped me build a life I’m proud of, a business that reflects my values, and a legacy I hope to pass on to my kids—not just through words, but through action.
So whether you’re just starting out in your career, raising young kids, or navigating a tough season, I encourage you to get clear on your own non-negotiables. Because when you know what matters most, everything else becomes a little bit easier to manage.